How To Do An Intervention?

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How To Do An Intervention?

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Many of you are wondering how to do an intervention.

We have laid it out in a simple 3 step process for you.

Phase 1: Contact a professional interventionist

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Research shows that most often families, employers, loved ones who attempt to persuade the person of concern to get help fail. Addiction casts a wide net. Those closest to the person of concern get trapped in that net, and the consequences can be considerable.

It has been proven that hiring a professional interventionist is significantly helpful in orchestrating a circle of love and compassion around the person of concern.

What is the success rate of an Intervention?

Whole Families Intervention & Services has proven successful in 99% of its interventions.

In order to be successful in your intervention, It is critical to establish ground rules for the intervention, such as:

  • No blaming
  • No shaming
  • No criticizing
  • No yelling

Rather, the language of the intervention needs to be one of compassion, empathy, kindness and love.

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The challenge is that, often, by the time families and friends commit to an intervention, they are emotionally, physically and financially spent. Anger, hurt and resentment can be pervasive among those caught in addiction’s web. Dealing with an addict’s lies, deceit, manipulation, secrets, broken promises can erode trust and thus, destroy relationships.

It takes much intention to put aside those grievances and come together as a united circle of love. It is this love and support that has proven most helpful in empowering a loved one to seek and find help.

Phase 2: Follow the Interventionist's lead in preparing for the intervention.

This may take several meetings with the group. We at Whole Families offer unlimited time to prepare for the intervention meeting.

Step 1: Choose your circle of support for your intervention

The people you choose to be in your intervention meeting are important. As the meeting is about helping your loved one seek and find treatment, each individual present must commit to the ground rules. If, for whatever reason, they aren’t capable of speaking with love and compassion, they need to recuse themselves from the process.people of support for intervention for drug addiciton

You want to choose those folks who love the person of concern and toward whom, your loved one has great affection. It is important that those in the intervention are cheerleaders for your loved one and someone your loved one respects.

Step 2: Sharing the family’s history with each other

A professional interventionist will seek to understand the history of your family and each member’s role in the family. At Whole Families Intervention & Services, we interview each member of the family to hear their perspective on the family unit and how they view their role in it. If friends, employers, teachers will be present in the intervention, we interview them, as well.

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Once we learn about the history of the family and each person’s role in it, we gather the family together to share what we’ve learned and ask the family to participate in the discussion. This can be a healing time for the family as members may be hearing information that they’ve never heard prior. Secrets that some members have been protecting are often shared in these discussions.

Step 3: Assessing your loved one’s condition

We at Whole Families will convene a follow-up meeting for your family to discuss your loved one’s physical health, mental health, and current situation. We aim to obtain as much information as possible about your loved one. What does she/he enjoy doing? Does she/he love being outdoors – hiking, surfing, gardening? Or does she/he prefer reading, crafts, art, music? Is he/she a professional or working class? Does he/she identify as LGBTQ, cis, transgender, non-binary?

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This information is important. Your professional interventionist will gather this information, along with financial perimeters, in order to select a few treatment options for your loved one. Your clear understanding of his/her circumstances and desires will help guide you and your family in determining where your loved one will receive treatment.

Step 4: Sharing the impact of your loved one’s choices on you and your family

Research shows that, on average, for every 1 addicted person, 25 people are affected. Addiction throws a wide net. Friends and family members can get caught the net. The disease affects each of us differently. Some of us get trapped into believing that if we just do _________ (fill in the blank) the person will get better. If we just say,” ____________” (fill in the blank), the person will choose to get help. In other words, we believe we have the capacity to save them from harming themselves further. Others of us feel angry, resentful, hurt by all the lies and broken promises, that we’ve stepped away. And some of us, swing back and forth from believing we can protect our loved one and giving up all hope.

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At Whole Families Intervention & Services, we believe that sharing how the disease of addiction has - and is – affecting each of you is indispensable in helping you heal as an individual and as a family. In sharing your own experience, others often relate to your feelings and thoughts. In that relating, everyone feels less alone, isolated and/or secretive. The disease has less power to manipulate and deceive a group who knows its secrets. This honest, transparent sharing is the first step toward healing the whole family.

Step 5: Your interventionist will educate you and your family about the disease of addiction

The concept of alcoholism and other drug dependency as being a disease first surfaced early in the 19th century. In 1956, the American Medical Association (AMA) declared alcoholism an illness, and in 1987, the AMA and other medical organizations officially termed addiction a disease.

The National Institute of Drug Abuse (NIDA) defines addiction as “a chronic, relapsing brain disease that is characterized by compulsive drug seeking and use, despite harmful consequences.” (National Institute on Drug Abuse. The Science of Drug Abuse and Addiction: The Basics)

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In the United States, 8–10% of people over the age of 12 are addicted to alcohol or other drugs. That’s approximately 22 million people. (Grant B, Saha TD, Ruan WJ. “Epidemiology of DSM-5 Drug Use Disorder Results From the National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions–III.” The Journal of the American Medical Association, January 2016.)

While addiction is chronic, the good news is that it’s treatable. When a disease is chronic, it means it’s long-lasting. It can’t be cured, but it can be managed with treatment. Other chronic diseases are asthma, diabetes, and heart disease.

For many suffering with addiction, it can be important that treatment addresses any co-occurring neurological or psychological disorders that are known to drive your loved one to seek out mind-altering substances and behaviors in the first place.

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We at Whole Families Intervention & Services know about the disease addiction. Each of our interventionists have been sober for 30+ years. They’ve seen the physical, mental and emotional consequences of the disease. They’ve witnessed those suffering from alcoholism, drug addiction, and eating disorders destroy their lives and the lives around them. They’ve seen families torn apart, businesses lost, and been to too many funerals.

At the same time, we’ve seen individuals regain their health, mend relationships and create the life they dreamed of having.

Helping individuals and families find freedom out from under addiction is our passion. We know it is possible for every single person and family.

Step 6: Prepare what you want to say to your loved one in the intervention

Here is where you will spend time contemplating what you want to say to your loved one and how you want to say it. Using language of love and compassion, you will tell your loved one how much you care, how concerned you are, and how much you believe in them.

Your loved one has forgotten his/her inner strength. You will work to express your words with honesty, love and encouragement.

Your interventionist will guide and support you in your language. This is critical. Often, by this point in your loved one’s life, he/she may be feeling despair yet pretending that all is well. Your empathy and kindness has the power to break through this denial so that your loved one can hear your concern.old fashion type writer intervention services whole families interventions

Phase 3: The Meeting and After Care

At Whole Families Intervention & Services, we work meticulously to orchestrate the intervention with care and intention. You’ll be directed and guided on every aspect of the meeting. Your interventionist will be right there, convening the meeting, assuring that everyone is abiding by the ground rules.

 

Once your loved one agrees to go to the treatment facility that the family has chosen, we at Whole Families facilitate transportation to the treatment facility and oversee a safe and peaceful check-in.meetingattable, intervention process for addiction

During treatment, we are in touch, regularly, with the treatment facility, advocating for both your loved and your family. We are committed to supporting you and your family while your loved one remains in treatment, after graduation and into early recovery. Treatment is a first step. We believe that individuals and families flourish with recovery support in early sobriety. We offer recovery coaching to empower those in early recovery to develop sober life skills so that they can manifest the life they dream of having. We know it’s possible. We see miracles happen everyday.

 

7 Things to Say to a Friend Struggling with Addiction

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7 Things to Say to a Friend Struggling with Addiction (and 2 That Are Actually Not Helpful)

Let’s name it: 2020 has brought at least some level of despair to, well, everyone. We’ve all felt heightened levels of isolation, economic hardship, and grief (if you haven’t, please DM us with your secret). We “cope” a million different ways—with shopping sprees, incessant Instagram scrolling and One Tree Hill reruns. And often, many of us resort to over-consuming alcohol and drugs for a momentary reprieve.

In fact, statistics show that, now more than ever, people are turning to—and overusing—substances and destructive behaviors for “relief.” (The American Medical Association notes that more than 40 states have reported increased rates of substance abuse and overdose this year.) If this sounds like someone you know and love, you are not alone. And if you’re at a loss for what to say, we’re with you there, too.

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For guidance on how to talk to a friend struggling with substance use disorder (SUD), we sat down with recovery coach and interventionist Frances Murchison, sober for over 30 years. She reminds us that there’s not a one-size-fits-all solution for SUD, nor a definitive manual on how to support a friend battling addiction. That said, there is universal importance in being intentional with our language. As with any conflict, we grow when we communicate with compassion, empathy, and love and without prescriptiveness, blame or shame. And while Murchison primarily recommends seeking professional help, she does offer us a framework for these conversations. Here, seven helpful things you can say to a friend who is struggling with SUD—plus two you should probably avoid.

7 Things You Can Definitely Say

1. I’m here for you.

People struggling with SUD often turn to substances to numb feelings of isolation and victimization, so it’s essential to start the conversation with your presence and without judgment. The challenge, urges Murchison, is to do it with boundaries. As family or friends, we risk a tendency to take it all on, unintentionally assuming the role of therapist, counselor and cheerleader. Practice self-care by setting boundaries for yourself and knowing your emotional bandwidth. Decide you’ll connect over one meal, two morning walks, one hourlong phone call a week. (You write the formula.)

 2. I sense that you are struggling.

With love and gentleness, recount a few instances where you observed some risky behavior. Identifying patterns is great, and specifics are best. Another cautionary tale from Murchison: Be very careful of shaming and blaming. Cite examples that help illustrate your concern without inducing embarrassment or guilt.

3. Do you believe you’re struggling? Do you think alcohol/drugs are making your life unmanageable?

As any interpersonal communication expert will tell us, asking questions is essential. Listening is too. The first step of Alcoholics Anonymous states, “We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.” We know the thought of suggesting AA right off the bat might sound daunting (although we can assure you, it’s an amazing resource and a pretty low-hanging fruit). So before you encourage a 12-step program, simply ask the question.

4. I’m struggling.

Whether your friend answers those questions with yes or no, she can’t argue with how you’re feeling about her behavior. It’s what we call “I language” and, we must admit, it works every time. people hugging, intervention for an alcoholicTo ensure honest and productive communication, we abide by the formula of “When you ___, I assume ___, which makes me feel ___.” Or, more simply, “When you ___, I feel ___.” This method displaces blame and shame, resting ownership and vulnerability (which, according to our girl Brené Brown, is our *courage*) on us. Try it.

5. Do you want to get help?

We’re back to the whole asking questions and listening thing. Posing this question in an open-minded, objective way sets a nonjudgmental foundation that’s crucial for any productive change. If her answer is no, honor her choice and vow your support whenever she’s ready. If her answer is yes, read on…

6. How can I support you?

Ideally, says Murchison, you’d tailor this question a bit. For example, try: How can I support you in your journey to get well? This allows your friend to speak freely, keeps her accountable to her own desire to overcome the challenges she’s facing and allows you to uphold the boundaries you’ve set. If she’s receptive to help, but unsure where to begin, scroll down. We’ve laid out a few of Murchison’s go-to resources below.

7. I believe you can do this.

Without question, empowerment will be the most effective tactic in your conversations (which, by the way, is always true…). Seeking a sober life takes courage, perseverance, and hope. Again, Murchison suggests citing specific examples: When have you witnessed bravery in your friend? When have you witnessed grit? Empower her with these memories and remind her she can return to that true version of herself. And don’t forget where we started—that you’ll walk alongside her, all the way.

2 Statements That Aren’t Helpful

1. Let’s grab a drink.

We know, we know. This sounds obvious. You’d be surprised, though, how much our social lives revolve around drinking (in particular). Take it from Murchison, who’s been sober “wining & dining” for a long time. Even the most perceptive friends can be quite unconscious when socializing. Suggesting activities and venues that are substance-focused isolate your friend and normalize the behavior—both of which we want to avoid.

2. You don’t seem like an addict!

(…Or, for that matter, “You seem like an addict!”)

Remember that whole “I language” thing? Kicking off a sentence with “You” is simply an invitation for your friend to stop listening. And, reminder: We want to avoid prescriptive, blaming and shaming tones at all costs. The truth is, we can’t define another human’s experience, no matter how beloved. And when it comes to addiction, we’re even less entitled to that kind of prescription. According to Murchison, even recovery coaches and interventionists avoid this kind of language when addressing SUD. Instead, the goal is that, via 12-step programs and community support, your friend will define this—or not—for herself.

Lean on These Resources

Ultimately, none of us can go at this alone (which is, perhaps, our tagline for 2020). For those struggling with SUD, and for those supporting loved ones who are suffering, Murchison shares a few of her go-to resources.

– Read, read, read. Glennon Doyle’s UntamedAnne Lamott’s Stitches, and Brené Brown’s Daring Greatly are a few favorite writers in recovery, among many.

– Consider AA. Many locations offer open meetings, where all are welcome (yes, you!). Because of COVID, you can attend a virtual meeting any hour, any day. Check out Google’s Recover Together for more info.

– And if you’re curious about Al Anon or Nar Anon, designed to provide help and hope specifically for families and friends of addicts, check out Courage to Change: One Day at a Time in Al-Anon.

– Listen to a few inspiring TED Talks on recovery, curated by A Sober Girls Guide.

– Begin or end the day with a few minutes of meditation. Insight Timer features many amazing options for addiction and sobriety.

If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, we encourage you to seek professional help. SAMHSA’s National Helpline (800-662-4357) is a confidential, free, 24/7/365 service providing support and referrals to treatment facilities and information groups.

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How to Meet Fear and Anxiety with Freedom

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How to Meet Fear and Anxiety with Freedom

Wildfires. Hurricanes. The pandemic. Job loss. School uncertainty. Racial hatred. Foreign intelligence hacking. The list goes on.

According to a study published just this week, nearly a quarter of people in the United States are experiencing symptoms of depression, That's nearly three times the number before the COVID-19 pandemic began. These are anxious times no matter who we are and what we’ve experienced.

Anxiety is, perhaps, the most pervasive suffering in the world. Whether we’re chronically anxious and have some DSM diagnosis or whether we’re gripped periodically. Anxiety affects our health, our relationships, our work and our overall well-being.

Fear is embedded in our membranes. In order to survive millions of years ago, all beings had to be vigilant about danger. Rooted in all life forms is a mechanism that apprehends any sense of vulnerability or possible death. The brain senses that it needs to be in control at all times in order to keep the physical form in existence. It’s in our DNA that our nervous system is continually scanning for past unpleasant and future unpleasant sensations.

The challenge is that we get fixated on fear: what is going to go wrong or what is wrong right now. When we get hooked in this ongoing fear, we begin to identify ourselves with the fear. We become driven by fear. In fact, our very identity becomes defined by fear. When this happens, we suffer.

This fixation triggers the mind and body to respond in 1 of 3 ways – all of which create anxiety and stress. We freeze. We fight. Or we flee. When we react and find ourselves in one of these 3 states, we disconnect from our true nature and our innate creativity.

Aung San Suu Kyi, a pro-democracy activist, and leader of the National League for Democracy in Burma, who has spent time in prison for her activism, says

The only real prison is fear.

The only real freedom is freedom from fear.

 

The truth is that we create our own prisons by not opening up to the fear. Instead, we figure out ways not to feel the fear:

We speed up. We get busy. The to-do list spans pages.

We set out to prove ourselves. To achieve more.

We experience shame and in turn, blame others.

We build walls around us to protect ourselves, physically.

Internally, we build walls around the heart and contract the body/mind. We develop a permanent suit of armor, always on guard for what might happen next. This suit of armor creates our own prison, and many of us live here day in and day out. Especially now.

Just how do we free ourselves from our own prison of fear and anxiety?

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Here are a few tools that may prove helpful:

Noticing What’s Happening:

We begin simply by noticing what’s happening, what we’re feeling, what we’re thinking. In noticing, we give space to what is here, right now. If we recognize the feeling, the thought, the belief, we can name it, “Worrying. Projecting. Fearful.”

In naming what we observe, we become less identified with the feeling. It’s as if we are detached from the observation and simply noticing what’s happening right here, right now.

Welcome What’s Happening:

Once we can recognize what’s happening, we’re encouraged to give space to what’s right here. To breathe into the sensation and allow it to be there. We can even acknowledge the sensation, by silently saying, “Yes,” to whatever is right here. “I see you. I feel you. We’ve met before.”

Many practitioners encourage us to invite the feelings in for a cup of tea, as a way of welcoming the sensation. “Please come in. Sit down. How about a cup of tea with me?”

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What I am Believing?

When we’re able to pause long enough to notice and welcome what’s happening, we can then ask ourselves, “What am I believing in the moment?”

The beliefs may feel very real, but are they true?

We then may want to ask ourselves, “Who am I when I believe these beliefs?” Practitioners encourage us to put one hand on our heart and one hand on our belly as a gesture of attention and care to ourselves.

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We may ask ourselves, where do these beliefs lodge in my body? Are they constricting my breath? Do they make my heart beat faster? Is my belly tightening? Mindfulness practitioners have known for millennia that beliefs, thoughts and feelings lodge in the body. Science is catching up and proving them to have been correct all along.

Responding with Compassion

When we can determine where in the body the fear and fixation lie, we can then respond with lovingkindness and compassion. Buddhist teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh, encouraged his students to respond with, “There. There.” A gesture and acknowledgement of, “I know you suffer and I am here.”

When we can show up for ourselves with compassion and kindness, we allow space for what is happening right here, right now. We don’t need to argue with reality. We can accept what is with a sense of spaciousness and openness. We can relax and breathe into it, even welcome it for what it may teach us.

This spaciousness, in turn, becomes our freedom. In this moment, we can breathe in that spaciousness and know that no matter what, we don’t have to identify ourselves with fear. It is not who we are. Fear is a feeling that comes and goes. It doesn’t have to imprison us. We don’t have to live in ones we’ve erected for ourselves. We can breathe and let go.

There. There.

 

 

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Are You EnablingThe Addict In Your Life?

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We Help You Stop Enabling

Our professional interventionists work with your entire family to help stop enabling your loved one. Denial and enabling go hand-in-hand with addiction. Denial claims there is no disease. Enabling helps the addicted person maintains his/her behaviors.

Often, family members think they are helping their addicted loved one by not allowing them to experience the consequences of their addiction. This is called enabling. Many families and/or friends believe, that somehow if they protect their loved one from failing, their love and protection will be enough to save him/her.

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From our experience, just the opposite happens. As long as a family and/or friends enable their addicted loved one, he or she will never recover.

Some of these enabling behaviors are:

→Giving an addicted loved one a place to stay

→Funding rent and/or bills

→Stocking the pantry and refrigerator

→Calling in sick for their addicted loved one when he/she is too sick to go to work

→Driving the addicted person to buy drugs or alcohol or providing access to a vehicle for this purpose

We Help You Love Differently

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By the time families reach out to us as professional interventionists, they are often emotionally spent. They have experienced one too many broken promises, broken relationships, broken attempts to save their loved- one.

Our intervention services provide an opportunity for your whole family to come together and rally around each other. It provides a safe space to tell your addicted loved one that you want him or her to be able to live a happy, sober life. And it provides an opportunity for members to encourage each other on your personal journeys toward health and healing.

We Help You Set Boundaries and Love Each Other Differently

Throughout the U.S. our professional interventionists support your whole family in taking back control of your lives and focusing on your own health and wellbeing. It is not about loving your addicted loved one less. It’s about loving him or her differently. With boundaries and set expectations.

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The process may take a bit of time, but it is critical for the wellbeing of the entire family, including your loved one. We support you in maintaining these boundaries no matter what your loved ones decide about treatment. Once your loved one decides to accept treatment, we stay with your family throughout the program is completed, supporting you in your own recovery so that you don’t regress into old behaviors.

Your whole family will need to shift in order to support your addicted loved one and each of you on your own path toward healing. With Whole Families Intervention & Services, we are ready to set you and your family free of addiction.

Breathing for Peace

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I breathe in All That Is –

awareness expanding

to take everything in.

 

From the unnamed vastness beneath the

mind, I breathe my way to wholeness and healing.

Inhalation. Exhalation.

 

Adapted from Donna Faulds

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Donna Faulds, a poet and a yoga practitioner, guides us here to become aware of our breath as an instrument of awareness, acceptance and peace.

 

If we believe that all war begins in our own hearts and minds, then we can turn our gaze inward to create space in both to let go and come home to our true nature, which is love, grace, kindness, and humility.

 

This is who we are when we’re born. This is who we are beneath all the lies, deception and manipulation of our addiction. This is who we strive to return home to in recovery.

 

Science has confirmed what mystics and sages have known for millennia. That our breath has the power to heal, restore and reveal our truest nature. It has the power to change the way we see reality. It has the power to calm our fears and reduce our anxieties.

 

When we experience ourselves through the veil of desire, fear and unexamined beliefs we turn on ourselves, cause distance from our own heart and inflict self-harm – emotionally and/or physically. When we experience others through this same conditioned lens, we react in similar ways that cause both emotional and physical harm.

 

How is it that you and I, out of fear and desire, create a sense of separation from ourselves and thus, others? And how, in this time of uncertainty and fear, can we awaken from this trap of judgement and live from our authentic, sober nature of lovingkindness and wisdom?

 

I believe the most effective and efficient place to begin is with our own breath. The word “breath” is synonymous with “spirit”, “soul: and/or “life force.” in some of the oldest languages and faith traditions on the planet. Our breath is our life force, our soul, our life line to our spirit.

 

So it is in these challenging times when we’re feeling anxious and fearful, we can turn our gaze back to our breath and simply notice this life-giving miracle with each breath. With each inhale and each exhale we have the opportunity to see the gift in each moment, no matter what is happening outside ourselves.

 

I offer this profoundly simple meditation that I’ve adapted by the late Thich Nhat Hanh. I use it daily. I share it with my clients and mindfulness practitioners. It’s hugely healing, and everyone can do it. No need to be a yogi, monk or serious meditator.

 

In the Kingdom of God

Breathing in, breathing out.
Breathing in, breathing out.

 

Breathing in, I’m aware of my eyes.

Breathing out, I smile to my eyes.

 

Breathing in, I smile.

Breathing out, I release.

 

Breathing in, I smile.

Breathing out, I let go.

 

Breathing in, I smile to my difficulties.

Breathing out, I release.

 

Breathing in, I go back to the present moment.

Breathing out, I know this a wonderful moment.

 

Breathing in, I am alive.

Breathing out, I know I’m alive.

 

Breathing in, wonderful moment.
Breathing out, I know this is the only moment.

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Addiction Doesn’t Rest

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Dear Friends.

During this time of real danger and uncertainty, many of us are experiencing stress in mind, body, and spirit.
Mental health issues and substance use disease often accelerate in the midst of fear.

We at Whole Families are to support you and those you love. Whether you’re feeling isolated and/or lonely
or overwhelmed with pent-up energy in the house, we know that this is not an easy time for many folks.

We are offering all new clients a reduced rate for recovery coaching to support you and those whom you love
while we cope in these uncertain times.

Reach out and call us. We’re here. While we may not be hugging you with open arms, our hearts are open and
eager to hold yours.

Be well

Life Will Intervene

Do a Safe Intervention before Life Intervenes

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Stop the madness now

Whether it’s medical, legal, or financial, life will intervene at some point in your loved one’s life. We are here to help you help your loved one find freedom.

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We offer this short quiz. It can assist you to determine if it is time to orchestrate a professional intervention.

Many of us wait to plan an intervention. The timing is never convenient.

Compassion doesn’t mean waiting. Calling us today can be one of the most important calls you make.

Our Professional Intervention services team with design an intervention based specifically on your family’s needs.

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7 Common Misconceptions About Addiction Interventions

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7 Common Misconceptions About Addiction InterventionsWhen alcohol or drugs have taken over a loved one’s life, and they seem reluctant to face the facts about their addiction, sometimes we turn to an “intervention” to help them see that they need help. An intervention is when a group of loved ones — family, friends and concerned others — gather together to try and help the person see that they need treatment for their addiction.

For those who have never been involved in an intervention, the process may seem daunting and full of unanswered questions. Many people have only seen drug interventions on television or in movies, and are not sure what to expect at an actual intervention.

Here are seven common misconceptions about drug and alcohol interventions.

  1. You should wait until a person has hit rock bottom.“Rock bottom” is a often-used phrase when discussing addicts and addictive behavior. Many believe that an addict cannot bounce back into sobriety until they have hit this extremely low point. The reality is that rock bottom can be difficult to pinpoint. Rather than wait for this vaguely defined time, try to get help for your loved one before things progress that far.
  2. Sobriety is possible if an addict is strong enough.Addiction is a disease rooted in a number of causes. Chemical dependency takes over an addict’s brain and changes his or her entire neurological makeup. Addicts need more than just willpower to get sober. Convince them to get help now.
  3. Rehab won’t work if an addict has already failed it.Just because an addict has relapsed in the past does not mean treatment will not work. He or she simply has to try again.
  4. Addicts lack strong morals.Anyone can become an addict. People who are genetically predisposed to addiction are even more likely to become addicts themselves, regardless of the character they possess.
  5. Addicts will sever ties with those staging an intervention.It is difficult to predict an addict’s response to an intervention. Drug and alcohol abuse can make a person unstable, which is why it is always necessary to seek the help of a professional interventionist. Just because an addict gets upset, however, does not mean they will sever ties. They will, at some point, realize that their friends and family are only trying to help.
  6. Interventions should be staged when the addict is under the influence.

    This is never a good idea. When planning an intervention, all possible steps should be made to ensure that an addict is sober when confronted. A person who is under the influence may be very volatile and will not fully process what is being said to them.

  7. Interventions should be staged by friends and family only.

    A professional interventionist is a vital part of making sure the intervention is safe and effective. It can be dangerous and very counterproductive to attempt to intervene with an addict without professional help. Always contact a professional interventionist, who will help you devise a plan to make the intervention as productive and healthy as possible.

South Carolina Intervention Services

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Helping one family at a time

We service South Carolina residents with a host of resources. You might ask, why do we need a nationwide Intervention Services company to help us orchestrate an intervention for our loved one in South Carolina?

Onsite in South Carolina

In South Carolina, your intervention process begins as soon as you call us. We learn about your family and your loved one. We learn about the history of your family.  We learn about your family's challenges and the strengths you possess to overcome these challenges. With this information, we begin orchestrating your intervention.  We then begin to find the most clinically-appropriate treatment facility option and create a long-term treatment plan to help ensure success for your loved one right in your home town, whether it be Charleston, Columbia, Greenville, Florence, Spartanburg, and Rock Hill.

With decades of experience, we offer South Carolina Intervention Services and Recovery Coaching for drug addiction, alcoholism and eating disorders in your home. We come to you. You do not need to come to us.

Building long-term recovery

In addition to South Carolina interventions, we offer personal recovery coaching and aftercare for both your loved one and your family. We are here to guide and support your whole family to recover and heal.

Thus, we at Whole Families Intervention Services can guide your family to shift in a way that empowers your loved one to seek and accept help.

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We are eager to have a conversation and hear your successes and challenges with treatment facilities in South Carolina and resources.

To Learn More About South Carolina Intervention Services for Addiction please give us a call at (800) 909-9714

Time For A Professional Intervention?

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Is time for a professional intervention?

Many families ask us, “is it time for a professional interventionist?  Many families suffer through years of addiction in their family, waiting for their loved one to wake up one day and decide to get sober.

What we know about the disease of addiction

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Here’s what we know about the disease of addiction. Addiction is a chronic, relapsing brain disease. There is no formal ‘cure.’ Left untreated, addiction will sabotage an individual’s physical health, mental health, psychological health, and/or financial health. It is labeled as ‘chronic,’ because it can lead to jail, psych wards, and ultimately, death.

In its wake, it can take a family and/or friends hostage, dragging everyone down with it. It demands secrets, lies and denial, all of which sustain and, even fuel, the disease. These same secrets, lies, and denial can justify enabling behavior among some family members.

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Denial is brutal

Denial claims there is no disease. Enabling makes it easy for those addicted to continue using, despite negative consequences that continue occurring. Many families and/or friends believe, that somehow if they protect their loved one from failing, their love and protection will be enough to save him/her.

Enabling takes the form of providing the addict a place to stay, paying his/her rent, paying the bills, stocking the pantry, calling in sick for the addict if he/she is too, high or hung over to show up.

Families splinter and can disintegrate under the weight of addiction and its web of deceit, denial, enabling, and subsequent consequences.

For many who suffer from addiction, if their families don’t intervene, life will. It will deliver consequences that can lead to death. However, for those families who decide to take action and intervene in some way, their commitment can lead to recovery and healing for the whole family.

For some, considering an intervention process can feel harsh or punitive in dealing with a loved one who suffers from addiction or alcoholism. The reality is that if addiction is left untreated, it can be fatal. It can take your loved one’s life and/or someone else’s. If you’re asking the question, most likely it’s time.

You will know it’s time if, as a family member and/or friend, you are feeling powerless to save your loved one. You have tried encouraging, hugging, pleading, cajoling, complaining, condemning. In response, you have received promises upon promises, only to watch your loved one continue using, deceiving, and deteriorating. You and your family are exhausted, caught in the vicious cycle of addiction.

Don’t let another day go by

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Often families wait too late to intervene. And, in the meantime, you and/or your loved one end up experiencing losses you never imagined you would have to experience. Intervening earlier than later can save you and your loved from hitting rock bottom. Intervening earlier than later can raise the bottom for you and your loved one, saving all of you from further losses.

When you do decide to ask for professional help, an intervention provides an opportunity for your whole family to come together and rally around each other, speaking your truth with love and boundaries. It provides a safe space to tell your addicted loved one that you want him or her to be able to live a free, sober and happy life. And it provides an opportunity for participating members to encourage each other on your personal journeys toward health and healing.

An intervention promises to save more than one life. You and your loved one are worth it.

Some recovery tips

Please feel free to ask questions. We are here to guide you any way we can.

Your team at Whole Families

Summertime and the Livin’ is…..

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As the summer equinox approaches, sun-filled social occasions abound.


We are mindful of these moments, sprinkled throughout the year, when our communities tell us we should be “having fun”: barbecues and pool parties and picnics and weddings and endless excuses to eat and drink.


We are particularly mindful that, for those of us recovering or suffering or both, celebrations might elicit more fear than love, more overwhelm than overjoy. We see you.

When life feels beyond our grasp, we rely on tactical practices to move with a sense of ease, freedom, perhaps even joyfulness, all while staying sober. As summer unfolds, we bestow upon you the ABCs of sober socializing.


AVOID triggers. We’ve been invited to an old friend’s pool party. We spent years drinking with this friend at this pool. The memory is overwhelming, just upon receiving the invitation. We have the necessary tools to attend the gathering in sobriety, but declining may be the bravest option. Letting go of expectations, we know when we need to say “no.”. We empower ourselves with the courage to do so and the freedom to believe we really aren’t missing out.


BRING a friend. And maybe some snacks. There is no such thing as too much companionship or excessive support in sobriety. We need it all and we aim to accept it graciously. Navigating a sober life need not happen alone. With +1s in tow, we establish a keyword, an SOS. When we say “cantaloupe,” we need some conversational reinforcement. When we itch an eyebrow, we need a quick regroup in the bathroom. We establish these friendship signals with humor.


CELEBRATE in our own way. Perhaps this means hosting ourselves, which allows us to celebrate the season with those we love in a controlled environment. We elect a trusted friend or two to spread the word ahead of time and answer guests’ questions. Or, if hosting feels too overwhelming, we have that trusted friend host on our behalf. As the “ghost host,” we pioneer snacks and charades.


Now, it’s your turn. Write us with your recommendations, D – Z, and we’ll share them with this community who is here to support, encourage, and uphold you in this season.


Then, commit these to memory. Write them on your bathroom mirror. Hold them in your pocket and in your heart. Remember all those who have walked this road before you, who journey with you now, and who rely on you to pave the way as it’s been paved for you.


May the season be filled with sunshine for you and your family.

We’re here for you at Whole Families Intervention & Services.

We provide:

Sober Transport

Recovery Coaching

Case Management

Sober Companionship