Addiction Doesn’t Rest

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Dear Friends.

During this time of real danger and uncertainty, many of us are experiencing stress in mind, body, and spirit.
Mental health issues and substance use disease often accelerate in the midst of fear.

We at Whole Families are to support you and those you love. Whether you’re feeling isolated and/or lonely
or overwhelmed with pent-up energy in the house, we know that this is not an easy time for many folks.

We are offering all new clients a reduced rate for recovery coaching to support you and those whom you love
while we cope in these uncertain times.

Reach out and call us. We’re here. While we may not be hugging you with open arms, our hearts are open and
eager to hold yours.

Be well

Time For A Professional Intervention?

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Is time for a professional intervention?

Many families ask us, “is it time for a professional interventionist?  Many families suffer through years of addiction in their family, waiting for their loved one to wake up one day and decide to get sober.

What we know about the disease of addiction

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Here’s what we know about the disease of addiction. Addiction is a chronic, relapsing brain disease. There is no formal ‘cure.’ Left untreated, addiction will sabotage an individual’s physical health, mental health, psychological health, and/or financial health. It is labeled as ‘chronic,’ because it can lead to jail, psych wards, and ultimately, death.

In its wake, it can take a family and/or friends hostage, dragging everyone down with it. It demands secrets, lies and denial, all of which sustain and, even fuel, the disease. These same secrets, lies, and denial can justify enabling behavior among some family members.

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Denial is brutal

Denial claims there is no disease. Enabling makes it easy for those addicted to continue using, despite negative consequences that continue occurring. Many families and/or friends believe, that somehow if they protect their loved one from failing, their love and protection will be enough to save him/her.

Enabling takes the form of providing the addict a place to stay, paying his/her rent, paying the bills, stocking the pantry, calling in sick for the addict if he/she is too, high or hung over to show up.

Families splinter and can disintegrate under the weight of addiction and its web of deceit, denial, enabling, and subsequent consequences.

For many who suffer from addiction, if their families don’t intervene, life will. It will deliver consequences that can lead to death. However, for those families who decide to take action and intervene in some way, their commitment can lead to recovery and healing for the whole family.

For some, considering an intervention process can feel harsh or punitive in dealing with a loved one who suffers from addiction or alcoholism. The reality is that if addiction is left untreated, it can be fatal. It can take your loved one’s life and/or someone else’s. If you’re asking the question, most likely it’s time.

You will know it’s time if, as a family member and/or friend, you are feeling powerless to save your loved one. You have tried encouraging, hugging, pleading, cajoling, complaining, condemning. In response, you have received promises upon promises, only to watch your loved one continue using, deceiving, and deteriorating. You and your family are exhausted, caught in the vicious cycle of addiction.

Don’t let another day go by

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Often families wait too late to intervene. And, in the meantime, you and/or your loved one end up experiencing losses you never imagined you would have to experience. Intervening earlier than later can save you and your loved from hitting rock bottom. Intervening earlier than later can raise the bottom for you and your loved one, saving all of you from further losses.

When you do decide to ask for professional help, an intervention provides an opportunity for your whole family to come together and rally around each other, speaking your truth with love and boundaries. It provides a safe space to tell your addicted loved one that you want him or her to be able to live a free, sober and happy life. And it provides an opportunity for participating members to encourage each other on your personal journeys toward health and healing.

An intervention promises to save more than one life. You and your loved one are worth it.

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Please feel free to ask questions. We are here to guide you any way we can.

Your team at Whole Families

Rehab Reviews -Whole Families Intervention and Services, Inc.

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The Basics

Based out of Wilmington, North Carolina, Whole Families Intervention Services is owned and operated by certified Arise interventionists, Frances Murchison and Kelly M. Chambliss. Whole Families Intervention Services offers recovery coaching, sober support and transportation services for individuals going to or from treatment. It is available to adults and adolescents who are dealing with addiction, eating disorders and/or co-occurring disorders.

The Background

The founder, Murchison and Chambliss both have several decades in sobriety themselves. After getting sober in their 20s, they decided to commit their lives to helping individuals and their families find recovery. They make it their goal to help connect clients to the right treatment program and offer long term support as well.

The Approach

The intervention process begins with a phone call from the concerned party to Whole Families. The team asks specific questions regarding the client’s history along with questions about the family dynamic. If the loved one and interventionist feel that it’s a good fit, the next step is to make an agreement in terms of what the intervention will entail and what the families participation will be.

In order to prepare sufficiently for the impending intervention, the family members meet the treatment team to go over what the process will look like and what to expect. The treatment team makes themselves available for as long as the family members need in order to assist in the preparation, and are there to answer any and all questions. During this initial meeting there is also discussion of where the client will go for longer term treatment. The interventionists present several options that suit the client’s specific needs, and set a date for the actual intervention.

The intervention itself is not a surprise; the client is invited to participate in the process. There is an emphasis on how family members must approach the client with love and compassion and steering clear of any blaming or shame, along with being totally open and honest throughout the intervention. If the client agrees to go to treatment, the team presents the chosen treatment facility and gives the specifics of what they will experience while there.

Whole Families Intervention Services works with a number of treatment facilities that include residential, Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) and home, online program along with recommending 12-step support within the community.

Post Intervention and Summary

Clients and family members receive concentrated care for at least the first 90 days after the client leaves treatment, and Whole Families Intervention Services continues to stay in touch for about a year. Once the client agrees to treatment, they also make recommendations for the family members to attend counseling,  Al-Anon, and codependency programs.

Whole Families Intervention & Services, Inc.
Wilmington, NC 28403

Whole Families Intervention Services Cost: Call for details. Reach Whole Families Intervention Services by phone at (910) 679-6367.

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